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oxymoron · 11-04-2009, 03:29 AM

Okay so a quick background before I post some canned material online game.

Recently I was dumped by surprise by a girl I was in love with and had been with for a year. I lost this girl due to improper relationship management. I sat around very depressed like a AFC for about a month before kicking myself in the nuts and getting back into the game. I admit there is still a bit of lingering oneitis but it is dissipating quickly with each successful encounter and approach that I am making.

Figured I would start with some online Plenty of Fish game to aid in my mission to getting back to field sarging.
I've been able to get my frame of mind correct through some deep inner game building as well resources such as this forum. (Thanks guys).
And can now say I am happier and more at peace then I have ever been. (Power of Now) is a great book that was a major part of this.

Opened several girls and have about 5 or 6 candidates that I am practicing on.

The one I have been focusing the majority of my attention on and that we will be discussing this evening is a hb9 with a decent sense of humor.

I realize that some of this is shit while other parts are decently played and framed. Some of this material is canned while other parts are real.
In the past I would of been embarrassed to share certain parts of this, which I think are pathetic and poorly done.
But hey, life's too short and the only opinion that should truly matters to me is me.
Although any help I could get to improve on my skillset would of course be appreciated.

Today's game went like this.

me Hey dork, miss me?
hb Duh didnt you get my text?
me No its wierd I havnt gotten any texts from you...
hb You and everyone else!
me I would of thought I would of gotten at least 50 from you by now. You're not a very good stalker
hb I'm pissed I'm going to have to phone my cell phone provider and sit on hold for 3 hours to figure this out!
me awww did I miss anything good?
hb No I just went to the store to buy toys for my bubble bath
me ooo *mind out of the gutter, mind out of the gutter*
hb haha
me did you get some barbies to play with in there?
hb Nope I bought 4 ducks 2 boats and a bunch of frogs
me lol a rubber duckie was my second guess. Are you babysitting?
hb haha no
me oh my god i just read you're pof mail. You like garth brooks?
hb Um...yeah....
hb is that allowed?
me Thats so awesome. I have to share with you my favourite song right now
hb k
me http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x9qow9_...nner_music Watch this video and then tell me you love it.
me Ill watch it with ya;)
me i have to replay it lol I love it so much
hb wow he's good:)
me I can tell you have a huge puppy dog smile on your face right now
hb I do, I almost cried....
me aww you're such a sweetie
hb That was amazing, people like that make me feel good :)
me me too I love the emotion he has when he sings it. It draws me right in
me Everyone else must see it too because he wound up winning:)
hb wow thats awesome
hb I've always loved that song but I love it even more now
me Well you impressed with your taste of music;) keep up the good work
me I'm a sucker for love songs lol. Thanks mom lol
hb Awww I like that
me ;) something about you always seems to make me smile. I have a huge grin right now
hb Me too, I have an awesome time chatting with you, I look forward to it...not to be creepy lol
me lol hey arn't guys supposed to be the creepy ones?
me speaking of creepy woah some girl on plenty of fish is kinda stalking me
hb Really?
me So far your the only cool person I've met
hb haha thanks!
hb Sorry about your stalker I didnt know women did that
me You'd be surprised lol .
me Tonielle Oo i got a cool text from a friend of mine today
me sec
hb k
me kk Its the 6 truths of life. ready?
me 1 You can't lick all your teeth with your tongue
me 2You're an idiot because you just tried it
hb haha omg
me 3. truth one is a lie
me 4. Now your smiling because your a dork
hb I am I am
me 5. Youll send this to a fellow dork in the future (im doing this now;)lol)
me 6. Youre still smiling.
hb haha I love that!
me I knew you would:)
me You said on your profile that you bartend ?
hb once in awhile
me Nice, I used to be the best flair bartender in Red Deer. No bullshit
me I was a bottle flipping, fire breathing, lady killing machine lol
hb wow thats intense...I suck
hbI just like to have fun getting people loaded
me lol that was my favourite part.
me I used to have full grown men cry to me and tell me there problems. Literally cry.
me Im a good listener though
hb Me too, but it was good times...not a career but fun
me exactly, I left working the bars when I hit 20
me Then off to the oilfield.
hb alot of people are in the oilfield pretty much everyone I know is
me Im considering going back to college:) I want to be a stock broker, a psychologist and a volunteer firefighter:)
hb wow
hb well I want to be a lawyer but Im going to school for accounting...haha
me Shoot for the stars. You can do whatever you put your mind too:)
me I used to focus only on money but I've had the greatest revelation in my life about 6 months ago.
meI've found a way to be happy all the time. Through my amateur study's of sociology and spirituality
hb hmmmm (got worried here. changed the subject lol)
me Yeah im a nerd i know
hb haha
me oo phone brb
hb k
me back
me What nationality are you Tonielle?
hb Good question, my mom was adopted so I'm not too sure
me Oh sweet a mystery woman
me Im part mexican:) It's awesome
hb haha I bet it is
me :-O are you hitting on me? You make me feel like such a piece of meat;)
hb lol you know it!
me If you were here I bet I'd be saying. My eyes are up here Toneille;)
hb hahahahahahaha
hb you know me so well already!
me You're amazing and you laugh at my cheesy jokes:) Im starting to really like you
me We should get together soon or I'm going to have to cheat on you;)
hb You wouldn't! Shame one you
hb No I agree you seem too awesome to be real
me haha
me You're right, maybe we should just be friends with sexual tension
hb Good idea
hb NOT
me omg you just used the NOT joke. Your such a dork lol
me my face is starting to hurt from smiling
hb haha your awesome
me :) So are you in love with me yet?
hb head over heels
me Uh oh, well we should definently get together and hang out sometime soon.
hb I think so too
me I want you to know though that I've gotten out a long term relationship. So you can't just maul me the moment you see me ;)
hb Haha thats ok I was married for 5 years and havnt dated in 7 I'm not in the mauling mood...yet
hb lol
me wow that's awesome, I always want to be best friends with the woman im dating.
me It's so much more fullfilling
hb Its a good start and you should be best friends
hb what do I know I'm divorced, lol
me I can't beleive you were married for 5 years. Do you ever think you will do it again?
hb Of course I will but next time it will be for good...I was just too young the first time
me You seem like a really positive person, that's super attractive. Were going to be great firends;) maybe more...
hb sounds good to me
hb ;)
me Well dork I should probably go to bed. I have a big day tomorow.
hb Oki doki
me Get your phone fixed lol I want to tease you during the day.
hb Try again tomorrow, lol
me sounds good, gnight sexy. Oh and don't get too horny without me (first time I commented whatsoever on her looks)
hb haha you got it!

Yeah I know it's long. Congratulations if you put yourself through that.
This is about 50 mins worth of correspondance. Ill set up a time to hang out right away, build a bit of comfort initially and then head into seduction territory.
I know I have made some critical errors in this but I am also happy to be progressing especially since I was depressed as fuck not too long ago.

A second pair of eyes may be able to see some of the mistakes that I made
feel free to lemme have it.
I know that many feel that online game is a cop out but like I stated previously, I'm getting back in the saddle and will be using online game as simply a way to supplement field sarging game.
As of yet have yet to meet up with any available wings in my area. I will continue to solo field sarge. But fir today anyway I feel like I have at least won a small victory.

Cheers,
Oxy

**SexPanda!** · 11-04-2009, 01:12 PM

Hahaha you got me with the 6 truths of life. I love it.

Just reading the entire conversation was fun and seeing her bounce back to your comments Smile

. I see you got tight online game for sure!

oxymoron · 11-04-2009, 06:03 PM

(11-04-2009 01:12 PM)SexPanda! Wrote: Hahaha you got me with the 6 truths of life. I love it.

Just reading the entire conversation was fun and seeing her bounce back to your comments . I see you got tight online game for sure!

Thanks mate,
I honestly am pretty new to the online thing and am kinda trying to tighten up the screws.
A great opener I came across for online game is....
Wanna come over to myspace and twitter my yahoo until I google all your facebook.
This get's a response every time (sometimes bad ones lol). But any bad responses can usually be reframed into you testing their sense of humor etc.

Glad you enjoyed the read.

**SexPanda!** · 11-04-2009, 10:43 PM

LMAO! I'm that's a great screening technique to weed out all the humorless girsl

oxymoron · (This post was last modified: 11-05-2009 03:13 AM by oxymoron.)

I have an update for ya,

Phoned this girl tonight while she was on messenger.

Told her that I met this really cool girl, that was kinda cute and laughed at all my cheesy jokes, and that I was thinking about asking her out but it was kinda weird because I've never met anyone from online before. What should I do?

Her enthusiasm dropped dramatically and she was like well if she's cool maybe you should ask her. Just make sure shes not crazy.

So I was like k I'll do it. I'll let ya know what she says.

I then asked her to come hang out this weekend on messenger and she was floored and like omg your so awesome.

We played this cute little game back and forth for a bit and quickly set up a meeting for this weekend.

This was pure gold and worked better than I could of hoped.

I highly recommend trying this if the opportunity ever presents itself.

Cheers,
Oxy

**SexPanda!** · 11-05-2009, 03:19 PM

This makes me smile.

Keep me posted on how this goes! Smile

oxymoron · 11-08-2009, 05:19 PM

(11-05-2009 03:19 PM)SexPanda! Wrote: This makes me smile.

Keep me posted on how this goes!

It's weird,
I sent her a text on Friday and phoned and left a message on Saturday.
No reply...
I'll wait until next weekend to re initiate contact. But I'm thinking might be losing this one.
Conclusion....
Online gaming might be fun and a way to build skills and try new techniques etc.
But overall, results will rarely be as good and the quality of woman will rarely be as as good as what can be found in the field.

On a lighter note I did full close a 19 year old hb6. Not one of my prouder moments but whatever. I'll include a field report later on.

**SexPanda!** · 11-08-2009, 10:29 PM

It's alright dude, I believe situation will work out for you Smile

**WhiteTiger** · 11-08-2009, 10:48 PM

(11-08-2009 05:19 PM)oxymoron Wrote:
(11-05-2009 03:19 PM)SexPanda! Wrote: This makes me smile.

Keep me posted on how this goes!

It's weird,
I sent her a text on Friday and phoned and left a message on Saturday.
No reply...
I'll wait until next weekend to re initiate contact. But I'm thinking might be losing this one.

give it a few days, and try a phone call again I'd say. A whole week may be too big of a punishment

(11-08-2009 05:19 PM)oxymoron Wrote: Conclusion....
Online gaming might be fun and a way to build skills and try new techniques etc.
But overall, results will rarely be as good and the quality of woman will rarely be as as good as what can be found in the field.

I read once on one of the other forums the whole POINT of the online game is to build enough comfort for number or for a get together. In other words, since you already have her number I don't think intense online game is needed here, just my two cents.

(11-08-2009 05:19 PM)oxymoron Wrote: On a lighter note I did full close a 19 year old hb6. Not one of my prouder moments but whatever. I'll include a field report later on.

awesomely awesome!

oxymoron · 11-09-2009, 12:17 AM

Thanks for the encouragement,
I will try getting ahold of her in a couple of days.
I'll update with any progress.